Thank you alioops, maz & mis_tree,

Your words all mean so much to us, and we have so much to think about, but the best part is knowing that u have all taken the time to read our thread and write to us.
We both know that everyone has different opinions and they are all taken on board, but we are also both aware that at then end of day it is the hardest decision of our lives so far we've had to make and it's going to be one that we think long and hard about.

thanks everyone xxx