I cant do this I need some help & strategies like RIGHT NOW

[Cocolove]

I told moni off before for butting into me telling off mj & banned her from basketball tonight and she went BALLISTIC I cannot deal with her she is in her room screaming like she is beeing murderd and I didnt even touch her ( i dont smack) but im at the end of my tether seriously I said i dont want my daughter on drugs but right now drugs are looking fantastic, I cant cope i do it all on my own my DH is a truck driver which means long hours and even days away from us and right now Im trying to calm down but I can feel it in my stomach i am so angry and I just cant calm down, oh wait now shes kicking the door...Breathing 1..2..3 how the hell do I cope she is getting worse the older she gets I need help

[BrightSparkles]

I really have no advice for you in this situation but am sending you LOADS of
All i can suggest is don't go in there while you are still feeling like this because you will just get angrier. I hope someone comes in soon who can offer you better advice than I can. xxx

[Mak]

Not sure I have any ideas that can help - but wanted you to have a
xxx

[Kazmar]

Have you spoken to someone about natural 'drugs'? I completely understand you not wanting to pump your DD with drugs
Im not in your position BUT everytime I need to give my DD's any sort of drug I look into the natural way 1st

[Cocolove]

Have you spoken to someone about natural 'drugs'? I completely understand you not wanting to pump your DD with drugs
Im not in your position BUT everytime I need to give my DD's any sort of drug I look into the natural way 1st

No I havnt but perhaps I should, I wouldnt know where to start

[Kazmar]

No I havnt but perhaps I should, I wouldnt know where to start

Maybe google someone in your area. I doubt your doctor will suggest anyone, cant hurt to ask I guess. Where are you?

[Cocolove]

Maybe google someone in your area. I doubt your doctor will suggest anyone, cant hurt to ask I guess. Where are you?

Im inbetween colac & warrnambool

[christy]

Mate.... deep breaths and a punching bag.

Even drugs take MONTHS to take effect when doing it with cognitive behavioural exercises. You need to get her to an OT or someone who does floortime which is emotional regulation help. That will help reduce the massive meltdowns.

I had a moment where I listened to my GP and gave M some drug that was supposed to sedate her for air travel... well... it had the opposite effect and she was more aggressive and agro than before.

[Cocolove]

Mate.... deep breaths and a punching bag.

Even drugs take MONTHS to take effect when doing it with cognitive behavioural exercises. You need to get her to an OT or someone who does floortime which is emotional regulation help. That will help reduce the massive meltdowns.

I had a moment where I listened to my GP and gave M some drug that was supposed to sedate her for air travel... well... it had the opposite effect and she was more aggressive and agro than before.

she starts seeing a child psychologist and OT on May 13th, it cant come soon enough

[christy]

Then wine, or beer, or something that will numb your mind at night.

Okay okay.... yoga or something more relaxing would probably help more, but my DH & I have used alcohol to get through the real crap times.