DD1 turns 6 in October and started Prep this year. She was so excited and couldn't wait to go. She has significant language delay, and also needs Occupational Therapy. Her Prep teacher is already talking about her repeating. If she does, she will be 7, and in the same class as 5 year olds.

DS1 has Autism Spectrum Disorder. He goes to Kindy at a Special Education Unit two mornings a week, and next year will be going five mornings a week. He cannot talk at all, is not toilet trained, and does very little that a 4 year old should do.

DD2 and DS2 are 19 month old twins. DD2 doesn't seem to be very delayed, apart from not talking, but at least she makes lots of sounds. She still likes pureed food, but at least she will eat finger food. DS2 will not eat anything that is not pureed, drops any finger food food that is put into his hand, and can only make one sound, a hard, "G" sound. Nothing else. They have been accepted into the Playgroup that is run at the same place that DS1 goes to. The Guidance Officer that I spoke to there suggested that it is too early to tell, but DS2 could quite possibly have an Intellectual Disability, or be Autistic as well.

What have I done wrong? Am I a horrible mother? I am in tears again from going over it.
No need to reply, I just needed to vent.