Karla special babies get sent to the best mothers so they can SHOW the rest of us how to do it! You haven't done anything wrong. Your kids are lucky to have you, you sound like you're a very alert and caring mum (for example, your DS2 sounds relatively normal to me, for 19 months - you know better because you're around him all the time and you know your stuff - if i were his mum he might have gone a long time without anyone helping him!), thank goodness for your kids, that they have you!



Bx