I understand that.... Its so hard when you can even think of things as your life anymore but how it will affect Murray's life.

I got pregnant when Matilda was 18 months, but we did heaps of role play and books about mummy being pregnant. I started around 13 weeks into the pregnancy and we read something or watched something about pregnancy everyday to help prepare Matilda, and we read books about what baby's do. We would go and hang out with friends with babies... just to help her understand the change that was going to happen in our house.