Oh absolutely. I also should've specified with the hot chip thing. My SIL is someone who wouldn't even let her DD taste her own first birthday cake (only gave her super healthy food) but when she started refusing all food they tried offering her everything and anything and she took to the hot chips. She obviously is not getting enough nutrients from chips but I understand food can be complex with special needs.

I have had to report for work (mandated reporter) and even though they are inadvertently neglecting her they are very loving parents who do look after her well.