Sue babe. You already know you're doing a fabbo job by listening to your DD instead of the nurse.

Neither of my two were very interested in food until well after nine months. We did BLS too. When DS was about 7-8months old I went away with my GFs and watched how much stuff they shovelled into their babies mouths and all of a sudden I questioned whether or not I was doing the right thing. But now, as my two go out to a restaurant and eat whatever is on the (adult) menu or tuck into a laksa or meal that hasn't been made kid friendly I know I did the right thing.