I'm struggling with names too. My DH is the biggest pain in the wotsit when it comes to names - he will either straight out say "no" when I ask him if he likes something, or if he's feeling particularly helpful will add that its "old fashioned and pretentious". I get NOTHING in return from him and he says he can't think about names until he sees the baby.

I have one name in particular that I absolute love and have for years. If it was just up to me, no question that its the one, but DH doesn't like it. So, TBH my name choices are always based on what I can actually get him to at least grudgingly admit to being "ok", and my "loves" are usually rejected. I've got four on a short list this time, I've told him my short list and told him to just deal with it! There are two on it that I love, and two that I like a lot.

I hope you find a boy's name soon that you like.

ETA: Just wanted to add that one of the loves on my list is a name that I heard and thought oh yeah that's not too bad. It has really grown on me now and I absolutely love it, so maybe the same will happen to you.