We already had two boys by the time we decided we liked each other enough to get married

The boys have both our surnames but not hyphened as I figured they could use mine as a middle name and just use theirs fathers if it really bothered them.
I kept my name so our next two boys have the double banger too, as will this one.

It is very common these days I think and like many of you my family name is very uncommon so this was very much a contributing factor in our decision.
DH did ask me once if I would add his surname to mine like the boys have but the logistics and money it will cost to change all my legal documents means its just not a priority right now.