I only had one girls name and one boys name that i wanted to keep and i made sure that all my friends knew them, the boys name not so fussed but the girls name was one i had for about 8 years so i would have been ****ed if anyone close to me used it....ironicaly about a month after i had my daughter Victoria Beckham named hers the same....i will be annoyed if there is a heap of little bogan Harpers in my daughters class!