Up until the other day I was one person who alwasy said it didn;t amtter if you had the same name for your kids as other people. But now I'm changing!

A close friend is having a boy in April - I asked her is she knew the name yet and she told me Archer - Archie for nn. She said they've been calling him that for ages so she can't see her changing. I told her I loved the name but didn't tell her it was VERY high on our list.

I am not upset or angry at all - we never discussed it but now I can't imagine calling our baby (if it's a boy) Archie who is due in Sept! It woud be just weird cause then our mutual friends would have 2 babies in the group with same name.

So I think if it's distant enough its okay or they're much older but that's it!

BTW - if you have any new suggestions for me that would be ace! We already have a Mackenzie (girl) and will prob name baby Darcey if it's a girl so need boys names now!