we haven't found out what we're having and have chosen a boys and a girls name, however the girls name we've chosen is the same name as DH's cousins 3 year old son.
we've only been living here for a cpl of years and don't have very much to do with them and will probably rarely again see them after we move away in a few years, however is it wrong of me to choose this name cause it's already in his family.
i thought if someone used the names i want i'd probably be pretty angry, however on my side i really love this name and have for years.
i'm a bit worrried about their family getting angry at me and dh for choosing the same name even though it's on another gender...what do you think...