I'm having a problem with choosing names with my DH. I think for him it is about control. He is normally quite a controlling person in every aspect of his life. But the pg is something he has no control over. I think being a **** about choosing the name is his way of gaining a bit of control back IYKWIM. Sounds like your DH might be a like this too?

I agree with Jennifer - use your first name choice and his middle name choice. The middle name rarely gets used.

Good luck.