How do you know she won't join so she can read it? and what about other people who are new and see this kind of behaviour? Do you think it's going to encourage them to post if they think they may be ridiculed for their choices?

Also, just because someone can't see that you are mocking them doesn't make it ok. Just like calling an overweight person a "fat slob" behind thier back isn't ok. (that's an example, I don't actually think like that about anyone)

That'd all I'm going to say, this wasn't the purpose of the thread and IMO it's been derailed enough already.

I have been on BB for years and never once have I felt like Im stuck in a chair with someone standing over me,, pointing their finger, yelling at me . UNTIL NOW !