what happens if someone steals your name..with 5 weeks to go?

[Pandora]

she doesnt know, and i wont tell, cos last time i did her DD ended up with my favourite girls name.
I know shed change hers if i had my bub first and it was the same, but we're really quite attached to the names we like now..have been talking with DS about them etc..

ETA: girls names are fine there no way shed pick the same one, its boys names im concerned about if we have a boy

[maz]

then tell her the most poxy name out babe and tell her how much you 'love it' so she names her daughter it and you can chuckle everytime you hear her call her

[Kitt3n]

then tell her the most poxy name out babe and tell her how much you 'love it' so she names her daughter it and you can chuckle everytime you hear her call her

:yeahthatmsl!!

[lovemybubs]

I don't think someone can 'steal' a name off someone, Id use the name anyway!

[visitor1]

For me i wouldnt use it....im funny about people have the same name as i had picked

[Schmickers]

I'd just use it. Our Molly has a cousin Mollie.

[Ca Plane Pour Moi]

If she does end up picking the same name and you both have the same gender children... send her a congratulations message admiring her taste as that's the name you're going to use for your child if he's a boy!

You don't have to change it, but letting her know early on would be polite, I think, that your children will have the same first name.

[briggsy's girl]

what does DH think hun?

given she doesn't knwo of your choice (and it's a cute name!) i'd say it's just a fluke and run with it. your bubba will have a different middle name and will be an individual anyway.

i agree with RH - let them know, if they use the name, what great taste they have in names - either that, or get DS to blab and tell them you're naming your bubba X and then see if they change lol

[~Trish~]

If she was a very close friend then I, personally, would change the name we'd picked (very begrudgingly - names are hard!) because I'd feel a bit funny about having the same names.

But go with how you feel, if you absolutely love the name and can't imagine another one for your bub, then go for it!

Hopefully you will both have different gender bubs and it won't be an issue