A friend of mine did use a name (I dont think she did it to hurt/upset me though) i had chosen for our DD but we felt Lyla suited her better and were going to use it on our next daughter (if we're lucky enough to have another) i was and still am upset by it cos i did mention the name to her after she had told me her list of names and said how much i still wanted to use it and then BOOM her baby is born with that name... Not much you can do