I'm not sure on this one.

We named our 3rd son J ack we new that DH cousin also has a son with the same name, but they live in QLD we are in VIC, I have been with DH for 9 years and haven't met them once. The only person it probably would have bothered was Dh Nan as she now has 2 great grandsons with the same name, but she had passed away. So we decided to go with it, I think if we lived closer and had more frequent contact then it would have deterred me more. But wth it being my 3rd boy I was starting to struggle for names that we both agreed on and liked.