Do you know anyone IRL that knows how to use one? I would say that if you continue to struggle with it, find someone who can show you how to use it.

Where in Bris are you? Perhaps I could help out. PM me if you don't want to post that publicly. Also, there are sling meets in Indoorpilly library on the 4th Sat of each month, and the guy who facilitates them would most certainly be able to help you out.

Don't give up, they are great and they are better for bub and you than the baby bjorn.\
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