It didn't work for us either. DS found it too constricting, and I just couldn't adjust it so it felt comfortable.

`in the video, there didn't seem to be a lot of fabric hanging down below the rings, but when I wear it there are huge long 'tails' hanging down, and no matter how tight I made it, DS always sagged down too low.

I found it really disappointing, because it looked so great.

I have an ergo as well, which I have also been a bit disappointed with. It hurts the tops of my legs, and DS doesn't like it much either. Even though I'd like to be a babywearer, DS prefers to be in his stroller. Independent little Aquarian that he is!

I wish you luck in finding a carrier that works for you and your DS - it sure can be an expensive undertaking, although I hope that if I'm lucky enough to have another baby, s/he will like one of the ones I have.

xxx