How can anyone smoke in their home? Yuk! And I used to be a smoker!
My DH smokes and I am always nagging him about it. Even after he comes inside the smell just floods the whole house for ages. He is not allowed in bed if he hasn't showered because the smell sticks to the sheets, it makes me gag. We have spoken about when this baby is born and I have already told him that he may as well quit because he will never be holding his own child. mean , but I need to get the msg across. So I came home the other night with a box of nicotine patches. FX it works, he wants to give up too.
I would just be as stubborn as possible, without making a big deal. Just simple orders like "no, you've had a smoke" when she wants a hold etc.