Both eating and whingeing are normal!!

My 2.5 year old is exactly the same - she can whinge about something, I will offer an alternative and then she'll whinge about that! I get confused about what I have offered! And the eating - well she does eat but not much and only when she wants.

I was recently told at mealtimes you offer only one tablespoon for every year - ie my DD is two so she gets two tablespoons of meat/fish, veg and rice/pots - this works for us! If she sees too much much food, she won't eat any!