Thanks everyone for your feedback, it is throughly appreciated.

i know that once the baby is here it will be ok, but at the moment my fears of what it will be like are over taking everything. i will have lots of help at least from my family (seriously the in-laws are hopeless!!!) and on the positive at least i won't have to work for a while LOL. Hello trackies and bed head.

You've definately helped me to know that it's all going to be ok.

Love and Light to you all XXX