R is not so great but I'm the one who bugged him to do it himself and now he doesn't let me check! I probably shouldbug him more about hand washing...I just have to make sure I notice when he goes to the loo!

Kaz R used to just hang over the edge too, so we did a bit of encouraging him to pee every time his dad, and so they'd pee together and R would end up copying his dad. If you gave him something to aim for, like a pingpong ball, do you think that would motivate him?