I always give Chelsea what we are having. If she refuses it..she has 15 minutes to eat it. If still wont eat it she gets put down on the floor while i eat my tea then once im done she goes back in her chair and i offer her something i know she will eat. I know kids her age wont let them self starve...but i dont like going to bed on an empty tummy so theres no way id let Chels do the same.