Thanks, but she is already 3
She will be 3 and 3 months at the start of February when term starts, and unfortunately the kindy has been very clear that "children are expected to be toilet trained". Although I am sure there will be the occasional accident!

I might just leave it, I still have another 1.5 months to make some progress..... I just don't want her to be distressed at kindy if she needs to poo. I would be very very surprised if she just went to the toilet at kindy - more likely she would hold it in if not urgent, or if urgent she would become distressed and ask for a nappy... Disaster!