WOW Gemma I still can even conceive of thinking about number 2. I guess its when you are ready for it. When you can imagine having two then you are ready. I've never thought that there is a too close or too far thing, because every family is different & it depends on what you can handle. For a while there I thought that having two together would minimise our time awake in the middle of the night...but the work emotionally and physically that has been Matilda's first year I don't think I could have done while PG....

So I don't have an answer for you, but what is best for you & your family. Remember that it isn't your DH that will be PG but you and things like m/s are different for every PG.

I wish you best for your decisions