dach - we have been catching him being good alot lately and trying to ignore the bad behaviour. and giving him more one on one attention to. we go to speech therapy in two weeeks which i think will help alot as that should help him with his level of understanding too.

sarajane - what you said makes sense i'd properly muck up to!

sarah - thanks heaps sarah, i did read this a few days ago and it lifted me back up ty

We know legally have custody over the boys. we did it by mediation (where the two parents get together with lawyers and explain what they want) All we wanted was sole custody - to prevent her 2months, 2yrs, etc down the track coming and taking the boys. She cants do that now...

She originally wanted one day a week, every 2nd fortnight from fri - sun avo, an half of school holidays. which we were fine with. But when it was all written up she changed it to - 1 night a fortnight, and half the school holidays.

Which looks really good on our behalf at least we want our children! im just discusted in her. this is her babies that she adores but she only wants to see them 1night? ...

oh i have to get up and clean before our cleaner comes! catch u...

n tytytyyty