Have you worked out why she is waking? Noise? Hungry or thirsty? It just because?
Our DD 17 months would wake 2-3 times and only go back to sleep if she was with us.
We started playing music to her and when she would wake we would put the cd on and sit next to her. We persisted in not letting her sleep with us.
At themoment she may wake once per night at I just go in and put the cd on. The cd is also handy when my 2 month old wakes up because it masks the sounds.
Unfortunately I think once a pattern is established you have to work at breaking it so I think persistence with her is the key. Believe me I know how tiring it is but you and your DH need to work as a team.
I'm not saying this will work for yiu but hey- anything is work a go
Big luv. Xxx
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