i have read alot of threads on bellybelly about mums enjoying snuggling with their babies, and taking them everywhere with them etc etc..

my problem is, my ds doesn't seem to enjoy being cuddled for too long, he starts getting restless and crys after about 15 minutes.

I dread taking him to the shops or friends places because he will cry and scream because he can't sleep in his basinette.

He won't just fall asleep in my arms or anywhere else but his basinette.

I also have 2 slings that i put him in, but that only lasts 1/2 hour and he get cranky and starts trying to kick his way out and cries

what am i doing wrong that makes him not want to be cuddled for long.. i would cuddle him all day if i could but he just doesn't seem to like it... also, how can i get him to just sleep anywhere?

I wanted to go to mother group but have avoided going because i know he will just cry and winge when he gets tired and bored.

this is making me very upset at times because i feel i am doing something wrong.. or don't really know what i'm doing.

does anyone else have these problems?