I'm not sure where to post this. When Lincoln was born (4 months ago) I was so happy for people to hold him and come and see him. I was telling people to pick him up and i didn't care if he got passed around. Now it's a totally different story. I can't stand him being passed around. I feel really anxious when people just come up to me and take him. I find it really hard to tell them to just wait for a while until he's used to where he is. It drives me crazy with worry and makes me not want to go out. I'm not sure exactly what it is I'm worried about. I just prefer people to admire him from a distance at the moment. Is this some kind of normal possessive thing or am I going insane. I do want people to admire him and want to hold him. But I want them to let me initiate it. Maybe I'm just a control freak. Does anyone else feel like this or am I alone? I also don't feel like hubby supports how I feel when we go out.