Thanks for the replies everyone. We went out yesterday to my SIL's place and the whole way there I was stressed out about how it was going to go (almost to the point of tears!!!). But it all went fine and I didn't feel like people were just taking him out of my arms. I feel like I just need to be more assertive. He is my baby afterall. I feel a bit bad about my whinge as some of you guys have it a whole lot worse. I can't believe how people try to manipulate and make others fell guilty.