I know how you feel because I feel the same way ,especially about MIL because she will literally pull Imran out of my arms even though it will make him cry and if I don't let her and explain that Imran is a bit clingy atm she'll still come back for another try. I do try and tolerate it even though its incredibly rude and it ****s me to tears because I figure that as a Mum one of my biggest challenges will be letting my babies go and encouraging thier independance. The way I see it coping with MILs snatchy techniques now is good training for thier teenage years lol.