The first time is going to be the worst time I didn't end up using the creche at our local pool as I never started the classes whoops but they wanted a nappy, wipes, and a sippy cup too. I have used the creche at church a few times and they are the same, and they have contacted us to collect her early if she's been too upset. Generally the no food rule will be to stop any potential allergic reactions - you might find they have milk arrowroots or something they offer if you okay it.

It is tougher in the sense that it's a wider mix of ages, but they should keep an eye on her, especially being younger and her first time. With all that said, go with your instinct, if everything is telling you not to, don't leave her. Or ask if you can stay and play a few times until you can see how it all works. It's tough, but if it's going to cause you heaps of stress it may not be worth it? The good point is that your friend is familiar with the creche and obviously happy with the service it provides so that is something positive.....

I hope it all works out no matter what you choose