Then its not really a *our* decision its a *dh* decision. If you have ANY Doubts about getting it done you need to research and present the facts to him. As the poster above said there are videos on the net of a circ being done. SHow him that give him info to read FOR AND AGAINST.

As I said to you I personally think it looks better BUT that is not a good enough reason to have my son circ'd - because that is what I am *used* to because as i said in his generation it wont be the norm.

When you say its *kinda* for religious reasons I dont understand ?

Anyway with all the info that is out there I hope you make a informed decision as to what you do if you are faced with that decision if you have a boy

Wishing you all the very best on your TTC Journey snd sending you lots of baby dust xxxx
Actually, it was a decision we BOTH made, his reason was because he is, my reasons I've hardly even gone into. As for what I said about thinking it looks better, that is a very small thing and in no way what I'm basing the decision on. (Although, it may have come across that way). As far as your question: When you say its *kinda* for religious reasons I dont understand ? I don't think anyone needs to really "understand" someone's religious reasons, that is a very personal issue.

I'm sorry if this post sounds harsh, I just don't know how to get my point across. I really wish now that I hadn't started this thread