I feel guilty as we agonised over even ttc #2 as we are happy with just the three of us but would also love another member of our family. A few days after I had confirmed my pg I remember thinking - what have we done, how am I going to be able to love and care for two. But since then i have come to realise that even though DS won't get the same attention from us he is really enjoying the idea of having a brother or sister and I think it will be different but still good.