Lol, makes perfect sense kerrie. It is nice to see the kids getting on and playing. I cant wait for Jay to be crawling around and being able to follow DD himself rather than with just his eyes and us chasing her with him in our arms. He adores her, and she adores him.
Just hope things stay the same when they get older as DH cant stand his sister (neither can i actually,lol) so i hope the kids become good friends and have a strong bond. KWIM.
Now im getting confussing. Ill stop now.....i know what i mean
I have been feeling guilty too, even though I wanted to give Jack a sibling for himself before I was ready to want it for me (IYKWIM??). I am still worried that Jack won't get enough of my time and resent it, but he is very good at adapting to changes so hopefully he will be fine. I guess it won't be long before I know! If there are problems we will just have to manage them as best as we can!
But about the guilt - I think it's perfectly normal. I read a really lovely poem about expecting no 2 written by a mum going through the same thing. It was so beautiful. If I can find it I'll share it with you.
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