Hey hun.. just thought id post in here too.

Ive kinda always just followed Jesse's lead apart from the dinner, bath, bed part i kinda alway inforce. And its always seemed to work.

His current routine is (when we're home for the day!)..
7am - get up.. he sometimes wakes anywhere from 6am but i leave him in bed until 7 unless he's screaming the house down. Then has his bottle/sippy cup of milk when we get up.
8amish - breaky
After breaky its just free play, watches some telly, go out side and play etc
11am & 1pm (anywhere in between depending how moody he is) - Lunch
Any time after lunch and usually BY 1.30-2pm he has a nap.
Then whenever he wakes he comes out and plays.
5.30pm - Dinner and he has a shower or bath straight after.
6.45pm - he has another sippy cup of milk
7pm - Bed.

Im pretty flexible with times.. sometimes its not spot on, but most of the time its roughly that. Ive always tried to have somewhat of a mild routine as i just like routine.. the dinner, bath, bottle, bed has always been around from an early age as its something that will always happen whether we're home or out for the day.

Hope you can work something out to make things easier on you.