wow thanks guys. i have decided that for the next few weeks ill try a few different things.

all your babies/kids sleep so long Isaac gets up at 5.30am every day. dad gets up with him and i get up at 6.30 when dad goes to work. i wish he would sleep longer.

Today we had breakfast at 7.30am
play till 9.30 than a nap till 10.30am
lunch at 12ish
play till 2.30 than a nap till 4ish (it was a broken nap as we had to go shopping)
afternoon tea at 4 (bickie and milk to hold him till dinner)
5.45-6pm Dinner is on the table for the whole family (felt like i was in a nursing home)
Bath strait after dinner (he is such a mess) i have just made this daddy's job everynight not just sometimes.
and i put him to bed at 7.15pm

I'll stick to this for a few days and see if it works out. I just feel so un-organised and today i did get more done than usual, so i'll see how we go. once the twins are born i know it will have to change.