I'm afraid i have to agree with some of the others Ryn and think as lovely as it is that you are incredibly proud of DS, you are putting way too much pressure on yourself as a parent, and more importantly on him. You keep saying that you don't believe in comparing children but reading through your posts that is all you seem to be doing.

Don't wish these early days away and enjoy all the beautiful baby stuff - DS is gonna grow up too damn fast as it is.