OMG... I know exactly how you are feeling! I am at the exact same stage as you... hence my thread aswell. Last night was the first night I have spent in our bed in weeks. We had DS in our bedroom but moved him out because I couldnt sleep through all his noises.

DS is the same in that he doesnt want to sleep alone... but I am persisting - letting him fall asleep on me but then putting him into his cradle - not sure if that is the right thing to be doing either.

Just be careful with the topping up formula when she cries, we were doing this and ended up feeding him too much, too often and he got a tummy ache - which made him very cranky and sore, but at the same time made him look for more milk to try and soothe the pain.

I have been feeling the same - like noone cares, my life has been tipped upside down and this baby has become all my responsibility... if you need someone to talk to, maybe you should think about seeing a good counsellor? I have started seeing one twice a week, and I really look forward to it each time - whether its to cry, laugh or just whinge! They HAVE to listen to you, because you pay them to.