My 14 month old still has 3 bottles, plus he also might have a sippy cup of milk, plus 3 meals and a few snacks. I honestly don't care what the MCHN says. He still wants it, so I am still going to give it to him. You could try her with a bottle of water?? Then you will know if it is the comfort of the bottle or if she really wants the milk.
Good luck.