my son is obsessed with only me at the moment, to the point where he wont even let my DF make him a sippy cup! it has to be me all the time! he also runs and jumps on my lap the minute DF gets home from work and won't go near him! just a few months ago it was the other way around! toddlers are just plain strange! hang in there! I remember learning at uni something about the toddler subconsciously in competition with the opposite sex parent for attention from the same sex, so in your case your DD is trying to win your attention over your husband. Hope you get some sleep tonight!