Thanks so much for your reply, I guess sometimes you just want some reassurance from experience mums and that always makes you feel better. This time he actually fell asleep in his cot by himself after about an hour. But you are so right, I should stop trying to do everything "right" and just go with the flow! I have always been an organised person so I think it is just getting use to going with the flow a bit more! I appreciate your response! Thank you!