Crap, no advice hun but perhaps reading a book about the baby coming & perhaps getting her to pick a present for the baby to bring into hospital? I wonder if talking about it too much is not helping but hindering the situation?? I dunno b/c my DD is two years older than yours and she doesn't seem fussed about the baby (yet) but I haven't spoken too much about it b/c we are only just over half way. I have told my DD I am going into hospital and gave her the choice of who she wants to stay with when I am in there & she is happy to go to her nanas but she was overly sensitive yesterday after coming to the u/s & OBS appt with me & DH, so perhaps it is playing on her mind. Hopefully someone will come in & give some advice for you. Sorry I can't help