I don't know the answer either. We're already have similar issues. I just want to give you more and support.

A part of the problem in our house is that DD is worried about what is going to happen to me, that "they" are going to hurt me, that she will be on her own, that she can't see me. So I've been reassuring her that she can visit every day and she will be going to school as normal and after school care etc. Hoping it sinks in over the next 6 months!