Wahhh, I was hoping to avoid the screaming, looks like I'll have to just suck it up and do it Might have to enlist DH to help hold her

Hestia - She hates the shower even more than the bath, aside from when she gets to hold the shower head and aim it at my face. I'm not even "allowed" to stand up if she's in with me, just the little misty splashes make her scream.

Danita - I'd love to have a mummy-daughter haircut day, but her hair is already super-short (and still uncut!). I reckon she'd scream the place down if they tried washing her hair too. I'd prefer to keep it to in our own house :-/

As for the hairwashing jug - we have one for Miss E. A likes splashing it around and helping me wash E, but won't let me near her with it.

Thanks all for fast answers and minimal judginess Don't worry if your first thought was "oh my god Teni is the most disgusting parent on the planet", because it feels that way to me too when it comes to this.