I work for 4 hours twice a week but considering as it's work, I don't consider it me time, even though I love it. Up until recently I never really had any time to myself, but my sister recently got married and we did a few shopping trips and I had a night away for the hen's weekend and it made me realise how much I've missed stuff like that. So I am making a big effort to make sure I do more things for myself - last weekend I went to the dinner and movies, and tonight I am going to a Tupperware party. Starting from next week, DS is going into daycare for half a day and unless I have to work, I'm going to use that time very wisely - go to the library, have my hair cut, do the shopping without tantrums (unless I have to have one if they've run out of TimTams ).