DH and I get time together (having dinner, watching tv, talking) when the boys are in bed - though either one could wake
Mum babysits for us when she is in town so we can pop out for a very quick dinner/coffee/desert - she has done this twice and now J is a little older hopefully will; do it more for us
I go to a board meeting once a month in an evening - I took J til the last one - so now i can go alone to that
I am going out with friends for dinner (late one) after the boys are in bed tomorrow - DH and I have discussed that I should have girls night once per fortnight and I also want to start bacxk at yoga
so i dont get heaps now but we are working on it...