Great advice Inertia and boobaloo! Thanks so much..will definitely try putting him on his belly and rubbing his back tomorrow and i'll put one of my shirts in the cot and see if that helps..
I feel so much better now after hearing all the suggestions, thanks so much ladies...i was terrified that you would all watch the video and tell me i'm a bad mummy..dunno why i guess i'm just a bit down on myself lately.