Veronica, she just might need more time. Neither of my boys had a problem with the transition but then they both loved the extra room. You could try putting her bassinet sheet in there with her for a familiar feel and smell. Or try putting the bassinet in the cot first to get her used to the surroundings. I don't think that it will take her long to get used to it. Especially once you get the other issues under control. Best of luck with it, you're doing a great job.